The one with the job interview

So last week I did something really rather brave. Well, really rather brave for me anyway. After eleven years at home since giving up work to be at home with my children, I applied for a job. As in a real job. One where I would actually have to leave my house, wear proper shoes and get paid and have a pension and everything. It all happened a little fast but in hindsight, I think that could be a good thing because I didn’t have the chance to catch my breath nevermind change my mind. And it would have been very easy to change my mind had I have let my nerves got the better of me.

I feel like I should start by adding some sort of disclaimer that being at home for the last eleven years has been the best thing ever. Because it really has. It was a huge decision for me to give up work and one that I haven’t regretted for one single minute. Not even on the hardest or most mind numbingly dull of days. I also know how fortunate I am to have been able to have all of this time off. It was never an option for us when our eldest two were little, we simply couldn’t afford it. But when going on maternity leave to have our third baby in 2006, it felt like the right time for me to take a bit of a break. Then a couple of years later we were blessed with our fourth (bonus!) baby of course so any thoughts of going back to work went by the wayside. And then I blinked and had somehow been at home for eleven whole years.

I will never ever understand the whole debate about stay at home parents versus working parents. Utter nonsense. I’m a big believer in doing whatever is best for your family. I don’t think there is a right or a wrong. We’re all just trying to do our best, aren’t we? I am the first to admit that back when my youngest two were little and I was working, I didn’t always manage the juggling act very well. Balls were often dropped. The fact is that me being at home has worked brilliantly for us, I have honestly never felt so content in my life. I know the traditional roles of the father going out to work while the mother stays at home doesn’t suit everyone – and I totally get that – but it did for us. Which I guess begs the question why on earth would I want to upset the balance now?

The truth is that I don’t have a real answer to that. All I know is that it just feels like the right time for me to get back out there. There have been times over the last few years where I have thought of going back to work but for whatever reason, it never quite came off. It never seemed to be the right time for starters but now I realise that like most things in life, there probably never will be a right time. I don’t know, I just feel like more than ever, that this is something that I have to do now.

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Over the last couple of years, I have been lucky enough to have some fantastic opportunities open up thanks to my blog but in all honesty, I’m never going to make a proper living from it all. Good luck to those that do but it’s just not me, you know? I’m a bit of a blogging dinosaur in that I will only ever work with brands that feel like a good fit and that means that I turn down easily ten or more writing opportunities for every one that I accept. And I’m fine with that. In fact, I’m more than fine with that. I have been lucky enough to work with amazing brands and PRs who totally respect that integrity. I’ve been blogging here for more than seven years now and I don’t intend to stop any time soon. I have never seen my writing as a real job, it’s just a hobby that sometimes makes me a bit of pocket money. I don’t want it to ever feel like a chore. No, I wanted something more than my blog. I wanted a proper little job just for me.

So last week I applied for that proper little job. By some minor miracle, I got through the application stage and was invited to attend an interview two days later. I agreed before I could change my mind. I really wasn’t expecting things to happen so quickly. On the day of the interview, I was ridiculously nervous. It’s hard to explain how much being out of the workplace for so long affects your confidence but it really does. I almost didn’t turn up but somewhere a little voice in my head said, you can do this. And I listened to it. The same little voice also told me that if I got through the interview without crying or being physically sick or worse, then that alone would be a success. I have never been so nervous in my life. Seriously. It was the longest two hours in the history of the world ever. Halfway through, I was so certain that I had made such a terrible mess of it all that I thought it would just be one of those things that I would have to chalk up as experience. I felt completely out of my depth. But they saw something in me that I didn’t and offered me the job there and then. They even went so far as to say that they loved me. Β L o v e d. Β M e. Β I KNOW!

So next week I start my little part-time job. It is near to home and it means that I can still take my little ones to school in the morning but I won’t always be able to pick them up in the afternoon. But between us all as a family, we’ll find a way to make this work because I need this. I need this little job. I’m sure the nerves will kick in before my first day but for now that little voice is still telling me that I can do this and I’m beginning to think that it might be right.

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30 thoughts on “The one with the job interview

  1. familylifeandme says:

    Ahhh Sarah, that’s so great! Congratulations! I’ve never had an option to stay at home I have to work. I work 2 days a week but it’s enough and it’s mine, yknow? Something that I get to do on my own without 2 little ones in tow. I’m lucky that grandparent have my children when I work so I don’t have enormous childcare bills. You will absolutely rock this job, go out and make it your own and enjoy every minute of it! Xx

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  2. helenlouisechandler says:

    Congratulations! It’s eight years this month sinceI went on mat leave with A, and I’ve not been back since! The thought of a proper job scares me senseless now, so I’m hugely impressed at your bravery in getting out there and acing your interview. This job sounds like a perfect fit, and like it will give you a really nice balance. Don’t stop blogging, though! xxx

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  3. Nish says:

    Congratulations! I would love to be a stay at home mom for a while, but unfortunately that is not an option right now.

    All the best with your new job!

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  4. Boythengirl says:

    I could have written this…..I too am going back to work next Monday after 11 years so I have shared and am sharing exactly the same emotions. Good luck!

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  5. hayleyfromhome says:

    Congratulations Sarah, I would be a nervous wreck if I had to interview so you’re right, even getting through that is a massive achievement but getting the job too is just amazing!! I’m in a similar position to you, I think in a few years I will want a little job as I’m not sure I’ll ever up my game enough with blogging, it’s a scary thought though! Well done for going for it xx

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    • (Mostly) Yummy Mummy says:

      Don’t get me wrong, I’ve had some amazing gigs off the back of my blog over the last few years and when it pays, it pays really well. But it is sporadic to say the least so I have never really seen it as a proper job, you know? I just needed something a bit more, well, proper if that makes sense? With actual pay days and stuff! Ha!

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  6. Tara Lara says:

    Oh good for you my friend, that’s brilliant. I did exactly this 2 years ago and while I moan and whine about it every now and again, it’s the best thing I did. I love leaving the house, being somewhere with other people and being in an office tea round 😁

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  7. Notmyyearoff says:

    Oh wow Sarah, huge congratulations and bets of luck in your new chapter. I hope it’s a lot of fun and how could they not love you πŸ™‚ I’m not sure I could ever blog full time either, it’s just not something I could live and breathe. I love my balance of work and life and blog. I hope it all works for you too xx

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  8. susankmann says:

    Huge congratulations to my blogging bestie. That is the best news. I think you’ll love it and it will be great for you. I am so proud of you. Good luck twinny and I want to be the 6th one to hear all about it xx

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  9. traceycwilliams says:

    Huge congratulations Sarah. It’s not easy going through interviews and getting back into the work place, but you did it. I was at home for 7 years before I ventured back to work, and 5 years on I still love my little part time job x

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    • (Mostly) Yummy Mummy says:

      It’s utterly terrifying, isn’t it?! It’s hard to explain to people who haven’t been in the same boat just how hard it is to get back out there after a long break. I hope it works out as well for me as it did for you! x

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